We can do whatever we want with our date, of course, this is only one example to give you ideas…
You come by my place after work, say around seven. I could have been all ready to go, but you like watching me pull my stockings up and I love it when you help me attach the part of the garters on the back of my legs… After a brief consideration of giving in to temptation and scrapping the whole dinner and theater plan, we settle on doing something fun that doesn't mess up anybody's hair. It does rip one of my stockings though; good thing I keep extra on hand for just such an occasion! Giggling, we leave my place, pretending we're upstanding citizens.
We walk or cab to that play, book reading, art opening, movie, Hump! screening we decided on. Since we used up our pre event drink time, destroying my stockings and aquiring these wicked grins, I've cleverly brought a flask. After the show we go to a really wonderful late dinner. We talk about the show, about life or the many definitions of tantra, maybe that color sea water gets as waves break, the silly things our cats get up to… Anything. We share tastes of each other's drinks, we share dessert.
Then it's back to my place, we stay up as late as we want, finally falling into a satisfied snuggle. We sleep in a delicious tangle until we're awake again, whenever that happens to be. We set an alarm if you need to be somewhere, if not, we wake when we will. You're welcome to take me to brunch when our rumbly bellies finally drive us from the bed, or I'm happy to make you breakfast. I look so cute in just an apron…
Expect an overnight to last from about dinner time in the evening to whenever you have to go to work, or brunch o'clock the next day.
Not super scheduled, never rushed.
